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How to Tie a Necktie on Someone Else: A Step-by-Step Guide
If you live in particularly fashion-forward place like New York or Los Angeles, you may have noticed an uptick in gender-bending clothing. It’s no longer all that unusual to see a man in a skirt. And it’s become nearly commonplace to see young women wearing suit coats, slacks and neckties.
“Menswear is very popular this year with women,” according to Scott Shapiro, a Taelor stylist.
Of course there’s nothing truly new under the fashion sun. Marlene Dietrich wore suits and ties. Kate Hepburn wore hardly anything other than menswear.
But here’s the thing: Dietrich and Hepburn almost certainly knew how to tie their own neckties. The young women in your life, however, may have no experience in gentlemen’s accessories.
So when she asks you for help, you’ll want to be able to provide it. The same is true of anyone else who might not be able to tie their own tie …like your child.
Knowing how to tie a necktie on someone else is a useful skill. This guide will take you through the process step by step, ensuring a neat and stylish result every time.
Learning how to tie a tie for yourself? Check out our blog: How to tie a tie for a detailed guide. This will ensure you're well-prepared for any occasion!
Step-by-Step Guide to Tying a Necktie on Someone Else
Step 1: Position the Necktie
- Stand Facing Each Other: Make sure the person you are helping is facing you. This position allows you to see and adjust the tie easily.
- Drape the Tie: Drape the necktie around their neck, with the wide end on their right side and the narrow end on their left. The wide end should hang about 12 inches lower than the narrow end.
Step 2: Cross the Wide End Over the Narrow End
- Cross Over: Take the wide end of the tie and cross it over the narrow end, forming an X just below the collar.
- Bring the Wide End Up Through the Loop: Hold the intersection of the X, then bring the wide end up through the loop around the neck.
Step 3: Create the Knot
- Down Through the Knot: Pull the wide end down through the knot you’ve just created. This forms the base of the knot.
- Cross Wide End Horizontally: Take the wide end and bring it across the front of the narrow end from right to left.
- Up Through the Loop Again: Bring the wide end up through the loop around the neck again.
- Down Through the Knot: Pull the wide end down through the knot at the front. Tighten the knot by holding it gently and pulling on the wide end.
Step 4: Adjust the Necktie
- Shape the Knot: Adjust the knot by gently squeezing the sides to shape it. Make sure it is centered and lies flat against the collar.
- Slide the Knot Up: Hold the narrow end of the tie and slide the knot up to the collar to tighten. Ensure the tie lies flat against the shirt with no wrinkles or twists.
Step 5: Final Adjustments
- Check the Length: The tip of the tie should ideally touch the top of the belt buckle. If necessary, adjust the length by retying or repositioning the tie.
- Smooth the Fabric: Ensure the tie is smooth and the knot is centered. Adjust the collar if needed for a clean, polished look.
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Conclusion
Tying a necktie on someone else can be a valuable skill, whether you're helping a man, a child, or a woman embracing the latest fashion trend. By following these simple steps, you can ensure the tie looks neat and stylish every time. So next time you're called upon to help with a necktie, you'll be ready to create a polished and sophisticated look effortlessly.
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